Do not raise your voice has always been my mantra when talking to another. I despise and do not see the need to raise the tone of voice when conversing with another. Though unbearably needed when arguing and making a point, still, it could be withheld and dismissed. I firmly believe that when making and trying to make a point across, what matters most is the content and facts that come with it and not the voice.
Although in debates, it is important, in normal conversations it is not. Get to your point and stop beating around the bush. Have a defined thought before you opt to open your mind and everything would fall into place. Have the guts to talk and express your thought without battling it out with your voice box.
Instead of making a point, at times, a disorderly and rowdy intellectual thought results when the voice speaks out instead of the mind. In other words, let your mind do the talking and your voice be its ally and not the other way around. Because the moment we do, sensory details and intellectual processes becomes null and void. We become focused on nonchalant and mediocre understanding of the world thus allowing us to rationalize on the irrationality of the world in general.
Improve your arguments is but the best and only way to address an argument. No need to raise our voice when expressing our thoughts instead what we need is a well-thought off and intellectually processed details of the world. Focus on what needs to be addressed and everything will come out right. Be in tune with your innate self and discover the beauty behind a conversation minus the temperamental voice in the background. Keep calm and express yourself without leaving anything behind. Through this, you satisfy and gratify your inner self thus permitting growth and development that emanates from within.
With the help of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP for brevity), we are able to express what we truly feel without having to worry about how others perceive it. It posts as a tool in order to improve our argumentative skills and at the same time teach us to be in tune with the world through our senses.
The moment we become attune with the world, we become sensitive to the way we communicate. More so, we are able to decipher sensory and worldly codes brought about by the way we communicate our perceptions and beliefs with others.
Thus, one need not raise his voice in order to be understood. One only needs to improve his arguments and way of communication in order to get the message across.
Be elegantly eloquent and argumentatively adept with the help of Neuro Linguistic Programming.